Monday, October 29, 2018

Skin Care


All right, let's talk about something very few girls actually think about:
 Facial Skincare.

Now, I'm not going to talk about BB cream, serums, lotions.... all those fads going around these days. I'm here to discuss good old-fashioned skincare that requires an average of three steps.

One: Cleaning
Please, please, please, don't ever go to bed with a makeup on, girls. I can't even begin to tell you the importance of this step if you want healthy skin.
 Now what happens when you fall asleep?
Your body starts to go to work, right? Fighting against germs, doing its natural thing God intended it to do while we sleep. What also happens to you skin?
 It starts to 'breath', shall we say, and your pores are going to open.
If you have dirt, makeup, sweat, or other grime on your skin, that's going to get trapped inside those pores, and will eventually create a pimple. Hello acne.
 Washing your face (with a cleanser!) before bed every night, and each morning, will lessen your acne flareups and actually help keep away wrinkles as you get older.
 And don't ever put makeup on a dirty face. Ugh, no, no, no. That will also cause breakouts, as well as dirty your makeup, which causes even more acne, which causes.... you get the idea. It's a never-ending cycle.
 I usually wash my face with Black African bar soap every night before bed, whether I have makeup on or not, a Shea butter bar for the day, and that has really helped keep my skin clear and soft.
 Whatever cleanser works for you is fine. My mom uses those Norwex facial cloths infused with silver, and it has helped keep her skin nice and fresh, so again, whatever works for you.
 The main thing is keep your skin clean.

Two: Toning
 Now a lot of people skip this step, but I have found through the years that this step has cleared up my face considerably.
 After cleansing, go in with a toner.
Burt's Bees Rosewater was my favorite for years, and still is. Unfortunately, I haven't been able to afford anymore at the moment, so I'm using a homemade toner that doesn't work as well.
 The reason for a toner is to close your pores after cleansing, and to balance the skin, as well as keep it glowing and healthy.
I usually use a cotton ball or pad, dump a small amount of rosewater on it, and rub into the skin.
 Sometimes, if my skin is really feeling the effects of life, I'll use a mud mask before the toner, just for a little 'pick-me-up'. Sometimes I'll do it both Friday and Saturday night, so my skin is looking good for the weekend.
 This stuff I picked up from my local Walmart over a year ago, and it's still about 1/4 full. So defently worth the buy!


This will help calm my skin, and the tea tree oil has such a soothing effect. All I do is apply it in a thin layer onto my face, let it sit for about ten minutes, then wipe it off before spritzing my face with toner and continuing my usual routine. 

Three: Moisturizing 
Although toner is very good for your skin, it also can dry it out. In the winter especially, the wind and other elements can also be very harsh on your skin.
 So after the toner, finish with a nice moisturizer.
I've used many different kinds, even just regular body lotion, Lavishmint lotion (which is also really great), but what has really worked for me is *drum roll please* coconut oil.


Now some people have said that coconut oil clogs your pores and to go with almond or castor oil instead, but I personally have greatly improved in my acne after using it.
 So I guess whatever your skin likes, go for it.
At night, I massage the oil into my skin, (believe me, it isn't as greasy as it sounds) then lay back, all ready for a good's night sleep.
 During the day, if I am going to spend quite a bit of time in the sun, I will sometimes replace it with some tinted moisturizer from Physician's Formula.


Then I follow with my usual makeup routine.
 Speaking of which, may I take this time to tell you just how unhealthy drugstore makeup is for your face? Just think about all those chemicals you putting into your skin and letting it sink into your body!
 Quite a few years ago, when I was about... fifteen? I decided I was done with itchy, rashes bumps all across my forehead and decided to give mineral makeup a try.
 For a couple years I used the mineral powder from Beeyoutiful.com, and ordered a few other products, which I loved.
 Although the mineral makeup did help bring my breakouts to an end, I wasn't too pleased with the foundation. It was a loose powder, and the routine needed to get good coverage caused it to be too cakey. I felt a little tight and painted up every time I used it.
 Then I decided to give Physician's Formula (the organic line) a try, and I liked that for a little while. It felt more natural, but still not quite what I was looking for.
 Then the local Walmart started selling a wide variety of natural makeup, and I am pretty excited, I have to say. As of now, I've been using Burt's Bees foundation and powder, but am always tempted to give the other brands a try. For now, I'm sticking this new stuff, because it works wonderfully.





Because I have sensitive eyes, I haven't been able to use any eye makeup except from Beeyoutiful.



 It works fine once you get the hang of it, but I do sometimes wish I could try some pressed powder instead of loose. (It can get everywhere) 
 Burt's Bees has a palette of eye makeup I have been eyeing for a while now, and I plan on purchasing it to give it a try at some point. 

 So I guess what I'm trying to say: 
For the best skin you could possibly have, follow these steps. 
 Cleansing, Toning, Moisturizing, and natural makeup if you use any. 
Simple? It's very simple. 
 And putting this into your daily routine isn't as hard as some of you may think; I do it without even thinking about it now.

 Tell me, lovies. What would you like to see next? 
A post about DIY beauty products, my favorite hairstyle YouTubers, Diet Tips, or my personal beauty icons? 
 Let me know in the comments and have a wonderful day! 

Remember, you're the daughter of a King. You're a princess, you're beautiful and you're loved. 





Monday, October 22, 2018

Fall Staples

It's that time of year again!
 Filled with cold, crisp mornings, hot spiced teas, coffees and ciders, boots, and hats... I just love this season. <3
 And what comes with all those crisp days?
Cozy clothes and a fresh look on our wardrobe!

So what are the few items we can buy (or already find in our closet!) that can give our wardrobe the trendy look this year?


Sweaters! Sweaters everywhere! Sweaters of every shape and size. 
  A bulky sweater with jeans is all the rage this year. 
Does your mom have some of sweaters from her teen years hanging in her closet? Well, you're in luck! Grab that chunky knit sweater and pair it with some distressed jeans, and your ready to go. (Just be sure to ask mom beforehand)
If you have a fitted, more clean cut sweater, that works well, too, tucked into vintage jeans and worn with an oversized denim jacket. 90's is the vibe this year, and I have to say, I couldn't be happier. 

Which brings the next item: 


Jean jackets, my personal favorite. 
 Over sized, fitted, dark, light, distressed or like-new, denim jackets are a big staple for a fall (or spring/summer!) closet. 
 Over sweaters or t-shirts, with skinny jeans of every color, slacks, cargo pants... the options are endless with these vintage babies!

Plaid.  
 There are so many ways to wear a plaid button-up <3
Alone, peeking from beneath a sweater or vest, tucked in, tied up... Does your dad or Grandpa have some old shirts they want to throw out? Grab them, because they are perfect paired with skinny jeans and boots or Keds.


Boots!
 I'm pretty sure I don't even have to say this, but boots are a huge part of a girl's fall wardrobe.
Tall or short, they are adorable, practical, and cozy. 



Hoodies. 
 "Oh, Mama, I have got to get me one of these!" (I really do! I don't own a single one)
These comfy staples are really the in thing this year, and they are so easy to wear! Just toss one on with jeans and a cap (left photo is ADORBS) and you're ready to walk out the door. 

And last, but not least: 

Jeans. 
 Do I have to say anymore? Skinny or bootcut, denim, gray, black, green... they are really the main staple of any season. 
The new fad coming out, called 'mom jeans' has really got me, although I haven't been able to afford any as of yet. They look just like they sound. 
 Your mom's old jeans from the 80's and 90's

And there you have it!
 Six items to grab that are easy to dress up and down, to wear when you 'have nothing to wear'. 
Now if you will excuse me...it looks like I myself need to go shopping. 


Remember, you're the daughter of a King. You're a princess, you're beautiful and you're loved. 

Wednesday, October 17, 2018

How to Be a Lady

Just what is it that makes a lady?


There's more to being a lady than simply using the proper etiquette or manners; following the sort of blueprints that the world lays out for women.
 Once I decided to google the subject, and one thing the article said really made me shake my head in surprise. Did you know a lady isn't supposed to wear white heels?
  Black heels, yes. Nude heels, absolutely. White, never!
The reason? They didn't give one. But if you see a pretty young woman with modest attire, a friendly smile and polite attitude walking down the street, and you happen to look at her feet, and you happen to take note of the fact that she is wearing white pumps, don't be fooled! She isn't a lady.
 Fiddlesticks!
Here is what makes a real lady:

Modesty.
 Now I think every single human being has a different idea of what modesty is, and no one will truly agree on what is considered proper dress. We could argue about the proper length of hemlines, or sleeves, but I think we all have the same general idea.
 A lady does not flaunt her body.
Her chest should be decently covered (again, we could argue the exact measurement), and the same goes for her... *ahem* rear end, as well as her legs. (within in reason)
 But there's more to modesty than how a woman dresses, which brings me to the second ingredient.

Attitude.
 A woman can be covered from head to toe, swathed in layers of material until only her face is showing, but still be immodest through her actions.
 Throwing herself at the boys, always doing her best to remain the center of the group, whether it's for the young men's attentions or anyone willing to cater to her vanity.
 Now remember, laughing and talking with the boys is not throwing yourself their way; it's pretty obvious when a girl is behaving in an inappropriate fashion.
 A lady also treats her fellow man with respect, speaking in a friendly tone, doing her best to show others around her that they matter, and behaving in a gentle, sweet manner.
 Constant complaining in a man OR woman also turns people off; no one wants to be with a Johnny Raincloud, or Droopy Susie.
 A positive attitude, (a REAL positive attitude) respectful actions and a genuinely sweet smile always shows a true lady and a true sister in Christ.

Speech.
 I know I just said earlier that etiquette isn't what makes a lady, but hear me out.
A woman can use the proper pronouns and adjectives to lash out the most cruelest, dirtiest remarks.
 Maybe she says "May I?" and "Pardon Me" but she also speaks in a degrading way about her family, fellow workers and friends, and people no longer want to listen to what she has to say.
 A lady is also careful about her language.
There's the obvious swear words of our society that she avoids, but what about 'harsh' words?
 A fellow blogger friend once wrote an article on the subject and I highly recommend reading it.

Kindness.
 The issues of the heart shows a lady and a Christian.
She shines our Savior's light with her kindness and caring heart, giving herself everyday for the good of others.
 She loves with a true love.

I want to assure you all:
 This is a reminder, not an accusation.
Because I know we all fall into these traps often. It's all that makes us human.
 So I don't want you to read this and leave with a sad, depressed heart because you're thinking that you're 'not a lady'.

Remember, you're the daughter of a King. You're a princess, you're beautiful and you're loved. 

                                                                                                              Have a lovely day,